Saturday, May 14, 2016

Why Doesn't She Like Me? - I'm a Nice guy!

It’s not uncommon for men to think that being Nice is something that will make them sexually attractive to a woman.  Most often this stems from childhood, when a well behaved little boy was rewarded with affection from the females in his family.

However the concept of 'Nice = Sex' doesn’t translate to The Mating Game… when an adult woman is looking for an adult man to start a relationship with, and potentially have a family together.

Remember that sexual attraction is not a choice... it's a hard-wired response to psychological triggers (behaviours)... which include how you dress, how you walk, and how you talk.

So when you talk about yourself, you need to come across as being :
  • someone who knows their direction in life – or at least their direction right now
  • that you believe what you’re doing is worthwhile – which shows confidence and character
  • and that you’re aware of your strengths and weaknesses - so you’re not looking for anyone’s approval

And if you combine that conversation with your own expression of Alpha Styling, you’ll create a positive psychological impression everywhere you go. And that's going to increase the number of women you attract.

Just keep in mind that you’re not going to be the ideal partner for everyone that you find attractive. So try not to take it too personally when you’re interested in someone who just isn’t interested in you.

Quite often it can simply be a matter of body chemistry… the wrong mix of pheromones (smells) that transmit your genetic make-up.  And there’s nothing you can do about that kind of message! 

Remember we humans are generally attracted to a mate with different genetic traits to ours, simply because the mix will give our children a greater chance of survival in life.  And no amount of niceness, or money, or good looks is going to make up for that primal instinct.  

It's a Primal Thing.

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