Sexual attraction is not a choice - it's a hard-wired response to psychological triggers. Put simply, if you dress in a distinctly masculine way, and act in a distinctly masculine way, you will express a primal sexual energy that is naturally attractive to women. And vice-versa.
I recently came across an example of masculine sexual energy from a very unlikely source… a woman... Australian actress and model Ruby Rose. She has been grabbing headlines in America since her debut as an inmate on the television series "Orange Is The New Black".
In interviews Ruby often describes herself as being 'gender fluid'... moving between the sexual identity of both male and female. And as an example, in a recent video she transforms herself from a blonde wearing a tight dress, red lipstick and high heels, into a confident and potentially dangerous 'Bad Boy'. She even wears a prosthetic penis to create that all-important masculine bulge in her pants. Her video is called “Break Free."
But what’s interesting is that, because she wants to be attractive to women, Ruby instinctively adopts a masculine image and sexual energy. And her ability to express that has caused a growing number of straight women across America to become instant fans.
And therein lies the lesson. Towards the end of the video Ruby emerges with an edgy hair-cut, wearing a dark coloured jacket, fitted jeans, shiny leather boots, and expressing masculine body language that says “I’m in charge - I know what I’m doing - and I know what will excite you.”
And that primal masculine energy registers with straight women and feminine-gay women alike!
So the question is, how can you tweak your own Image Projection to create the kind of sexual attraction that’s causing so many straight women to look at Ruby and say “I’d tap that.”
Keep in mind that increasing your attraction-factor is not something that's done by being extra nice. It’s done by being extra manly…. creating a strong and slightly aggressive (edgy) look that triggers a primal sexual excitement in women.
And the good news is that you don't have to act like this all the time... just now and then will probably be enough to increase the sexual tension in your relationship.
It's not something that's necessary all the time because even though Bad Boys and Bad Girls are exciting ( and very sexual ), they generally don't want to settle down with just one person. And one way or another, most people realise that. So just a touch of Bad Boy is usually more than enough.
Below is the link... you can watch the whole thing... or just the last 40 seconds. It really is a lesson in primal sexual energy :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFjsSSDLl8w *(5mins17secs – or start at 4mins42secs)
It's a Primal Thing.