Women instinctively know how to maximise their attraction-factor. Different cultures achieve it in different ways, but in the West the most common way is to wear a little black dress and high heels.
This all stems from the three primal values that influence how we (men and women) dress :
- to fit-in and be accepted by our social group
- to stand out and raise our status within the group
- to be sexually attractive to potential mates within the group.
But when a single guy is looking for a potential girlfriend, he really needs to pay more attention to maximising HIS status and sexual attraction. It's a primal thing. We (humans) have a natural desire to attract as many potential mates as possible, then choose the right one for us.
So my question is this, "As a man, what's your version of the little black dress and high-heels?"
Or put another way, "What outfit do you wear to maximise your sexual currency as a man?"
It might surprise you to know that most guys don't actually have an outfit that has high sexual currency. Instead they just wear what's trendy... or what the other men in their social group wear... or what they think looks good (in spite of never having ask women for their opinion).
What every man needs to do is wear what women think looks good. And you can achieve that by :
- taking a minimalist approach (with little-to-no decoration)
- highlighting your best masculine features (shoulders, chest, butt, thighs)
- using dark and solid colours as the foundation of your wardrobe (see below).
Finally, I recommend that men who are married or in a relationship also give some thought to this question. Having a partner is no reason to be lazy and let your attraction-factor slip. But surprisingly, that's exactly what a lot of guys do.
Remember that sexual attraction is not a choice... it's a hard-wired psychological response. And what you need to do is wear clothing that triggers that response.
So if you want your partner to continue finding you to be sexually attractive, then you need to pay attention to what you wear when you're with her.
So once again - What's your version of a little black dress and high-heels? If you don't have an immediate answer, then it's time to start thinking about it.
It's a Primal Thing.