Friday, January 9, 2015

Maximising the Attraction-Factor of your Shoes

(Edgy Exotics : Lizard, Python, Stingray, Ostrich and Alligator)

Here's something very important... it's Secret Women's Business... a sliding scale of how your wife or girlfriend sees the shoes you wear when you go out with her :
  1. If she says "Those shoes are OK" –  it means that your shoes are basically a non-event… you may as well just wear socks and leave those shoes at home.
  2. If she says "Those shoes are NICE" – it means they look fine… but they don't really make a memorable impression... so you basically wasted your money buying those.
  3. If she says "Those shoes are GOOD" – it means you’re on the right track… you nearly grabbed her attention with those... but you need to try a little harder.
  4. If she says "Those shoes are GREAT" – it means that you have maximised your attraction factor, and you’ve got her complete and undivided attention!
The shoes in the photo above are good examples of the GREAT category. They look masculine, strong and edgy... and from a woman's perspective that's something different... something out of the ordinary... and potentially something exciting.

That point is so important it's worth repeating : shoes that look masculine, strong and edgy offer something different... something out of the ordinary... and potentially something exciting.

(The sheen of goat fur is a luxurious option to wearing suede)

BTW, any male friends or co-workers who tell that they don’t care what a woman thinks about their shoes (or anything else they wear) are probably lying.

The truth is more likely that they thought they were dressing 'ok', and finding out that they could do better is just too hard to even think about. So they pretend that they don't really care! 

But we are all hard-wired to want to be seen as attractive to potential sexual partners. It's part of the three primal values that influence how men and women dress :
  1. to fit-in and be accepted by our social group
  2. to stand out and raise our status within the group
  3. to be sexually attractive to potential mates within the group.

It’s interesting to note that men are more inclined to be influenced by #1 and #2… while women are more inclined to be influenced by #2 and #3.

Put another way, men are more inclined to want to fit-in with what the other men in their social group are wearing... but at the same time they want to stand out in a way that makes them a bit different.

Men are hard-wired to fit-in with what the other men in the group (tribe) are wearing, because historically men need the help and support of other men to hunt for food, or to fight for survival.
(Pale python creates an edgy casual look - great with jeans)

But when it comes to attracting a sexual partner, dressing to please the other men in your group is not going to maximise your attraction-factor to women.

So keep in mind that women notice men's shoes... because like everything else you wear, your shoes make a statement about your character, your individuality, and your self-confidence.

In short, they make a statement about what sort of man you are. So don't bother buying shoes that are boring and comfy... look around for shoes that are masculine, strong, and edgy.

It's a Primal Thing.

For more examples of Alpha Style footwear, click on this link to Shoe Passion :

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